Kuthetsa Zopeka Zokhudza Kuboola Malo & Kugonana

 Malo aliwonse oboola anthu m'tawuni ya Toronto amamva makasitomala masauzande ambiri akufunsa chaka chilichonse kuti, "kodi pali mbali ya amuna kapena akazi okhaokha yoboola?" Mosasamala chifukwa chomwe akufunsa yankho lathu ndi losavuta komanso losavuta, kuboola malo sakusonyeza kugonana kwanu. Inu nokha mungathe kuchita zimenezo.

Timamvetsetsa kuti pali zifukwa zosiyanasiyana zomwe anthu amafunsa. Anthu ena amafuna kulengeza za kugonana kwawo kudziko, ena safuna kusokoneza chithunzi chawo. Komabe, oboola ambiri angaoneke ngati okwiya mutawafunsa. Ndipo chifukwa chake ndi chosavuta, mphekesera iyi yakhalapo kwa nthawi yayitali ndipo ikuwonetsa kuboola ngati chinthu chomwe sichili. 

Nthano imeneyi yakhala ikuchepetsa kwa anthu ambiri posankha kuboola, ndipo zikuwoneka kuti idayamba kuyambira nthawi yomwe anthu sanali kuvomereza zachiwerewere za anthu ena.

Kodi Nthano Imeneyi Inachokera Kuti?

Munthawi yomwe anthu sanali kuvomereza chikhalidwe cha LGBTQ +, anthu amakhulupirira kuti anthu a LGBTQ + amagwiritsa ntchito code kuwonetsa zomwe amakonda. Nthawi zambiri izi zinkakhudzana ndi kuboola makutu, nsidze, kapena mphuno.

 Ndikovuta kutsimikiza ngati izi zinali zoona popeza zinali zofala kuti anthu azinena kuti ndi mbali yakumanzere ngati kumanja.

 Komabe, masiku ano si zoona. Anthu sayenera kumva kufunika kobisala kuti ndi ndani, choncho kufunikira kodziwonetsera nokha kudzera mu code ndikosafunika. M’malo mwake, kulimbikira kwa nthano imeneyi ndi chizindikiro cha kupezerera anzawo ndi kusavomereza.

Kuboola Mbali Imodzi Kapena Ina Kumatanthauza Chiyani?

Kwa mbali zambiri, mbali ya thupi yomwe mumaboola ilibe tanthauzo lalikulu. Chifukwa chachikulu chosankha mbali yoboola ndi kukongola. Njira yabwino yosankha mbali ndikutengera momwe idzawonekere. Kwa njira iyi, ganizirani:

• Makongo
• Nkhope nkhope
• NKHANI
• Kuboola kwina

Pali zifukwa zachikhalidwe zakale zomwe anthu angaganizirenso. Mu chikhalidwe cha Chihindu, ndizofala kusankha mbali yakumanzere yoboola mphuno. Ndipo mu mankhwala achi China mbali yakumanzere inkaonedwa ngati yachikazi komanso kumanja kwachimuna. Masiku ano, palibe mbali iliyonse yokhudzana ndi jenda. 

Pezani Kuboola Kumene Mumakonda Ku Newmarket

Pankhani yosankha mbali ya kuboola kwanu, tanthauzo lokhalo lomwe muyenera kuyang'ana ndilo mbali yomwe mumakonda kwambiri. Lingaliro la mbali imodzi yosonyeza kugonana kwanu ndi lachikale komanso losafunika mu chikhalidwe chamakono. 

Kupatula apo, kuboola kwanu kumakhudza inu - osati mtundu wa anthu omwe amaweruza mwachangu potengera mawonekedwe anu. Choncho pezani kuboola komwe mumakonda, osati kukhutiritsa ena. Layidwani lero pamalo athu atsopano ku Newmarket!